When I married my husband our plans were to have a family. Those plans didn't work out as we hoped. Having a baby wasn't something that would happen for us. Then we had friends that asked us if we ever consider adoption. We thought about it and decided to try to build our family that way. We then looked into adoption. We thought about it and decided to try to build our family that way. We adopted our son Wesley in 2011 and are currently in the process of adopting our daughter this year. I have nothing but respect and admiration for the two mothers that decided to make the hardest choice in the world. I can't imagine my life without my babies.